It's a beautiful summer's day today. We are going to have another hot day. So I need to make sure that I drink enough as I haven't been so dehydrated that my brain scrambles completely, and as my husband says, I become like a 2-year-old - for three years now. I'm not able to tell when I begin to get dehydrated, as I just become extremely sleepy, and I used to drink so much water that my ileostomy would kick it out as fast as it could, also taking my proper sodium/potassium ratio with it.
Fortunately, after 30 years of marriage, my full-time caregiver husband can tell by my speech if I need to start drinking my electrolytes - which I will do straight away. Having no IV access is a pain in the neck, and having IV fluid put in through a sub-cut line in my abdomen is slow and it takes a long time for me to become "me" again....
I am having a lot of pain. I'm on palliative pain medication, and since I'm a Dutch Kiwi, I'm stubborn, as I want to keep my pain meds as low as I can possibly get it without having to deal with breakthrough pain. But hubby talks sense into me and tells me that I need to take extra pain relief when my pain gets out of control. (Don't worry - I do not have a bowel obstruction ;-) ).
I am going to take it easy. Read for a while.
I hope you are all doing relatively well!
GB
A hot day, hey! It's really chilly in the UK at the moment, with a storm coming across the country.
Hope your hydration is balanced and reading is good - one can become immersed for a while.
Kind thoughts,
BW
J
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Hi Gracie:
It has been -33°C here the last two mornings. Today it warmed up to -12, then it snowed. I get what you mean about pain meds. I have an aversion to them as well. In fact at the moment I am taking none at all. My daughter, who is a physician tells me to take the meds before I really start to hurt. It is a lot harder to break through the pain after it has started. I have several half full/empty water bottles scattered around the house it an attempt to remind myself to stay hydrated. It sounds weird, but so far it has worked.
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Thanks, Jayne,
Yes, my brother in the Netherlands told me how cold it was, and although the weather hasn't gone below zero, they are getting lots of rain, and he says the weather is pretty miserable. My husband's sister and family live very close to my brother, and I wish I could see them. But I am not allowed to fly.
If only Stargates existed in real life! Then we could have one in our 2-acre garden, and my sister-in-law could have one in her garden, and we'd be able to just walk through and visit for a few hours!
Grace
Brrrr..... In the winter, we very rarely get frost lower than -5°C (which is 25°F), and that's only at night occasionally. We don't get any snow (how I miss snow from my childhood in the Netherlands).
I will absolutely love it when my husband finally puts up our swimming pool! It would be such bliss to cool down!
:-)
I remember that when we went to visit family in the Netherlands in 1997/1998 over the Christmas / New year holidays that the entire time it was -20 and snowing the entire time. Walking on the foot path was a challenge! And my ears were freezing. My mother-in-law didn't approve of my New Zealand made winter jacket, and took me shopping for a "real" winter jacket!!
We loved it for about the first 4 days and then we both started feeling terribly homesick for New Zealand!
My problem with my pain medication is that it's so sedating. I was sleeping 20 hours a day, and my doctors started to worry that I was dying.....
None of the medications I was given were working, as most tablets, especially slow acting medications, are designed for people who have a large bowel. Having only 3.5 meters of small bowel I'd find my medication floating in the toilet, completely intact and undigested....
Prescription medicinal cannabis became legal in New Zealand on April 1, 2020, and a little over a year ago my GP suggested we give it a go.
It changed my life completely. The only thing is that it comes in oil drops, and it isn't funded, but my husband makes sure to budget for it, as it's made such a huge difference for me. He only complains now that I suffer from verbal diarrhea - to which my doctor tells him "sorry but there's no cure for that!"
LOL