My stoma's just a minor sore.

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Bill
Jan 25, 2025 3:40 pm

MY STOMA’S JUST A MINOR SORE.

My stoma’s just a minor sore
compared to people waging war,
for war will keep me up at night
because I feel it is not right.

I tend to my ablutions and
feel that I can understand
how frustration can arise
from this type of enterprise.

My stoma has some moments when
I find it irritates and then
I have to contemplate my lot 
to see exactly what I’ve got.

When weighing up the good and bad,
comparing it to what I had, 
usually, I will concede
a stoma has been what I need.

So, instead of pondering
on stomas, and go wandering
in my thoughts on negatives,
I’ll concentrate on positives.

This helps me calm my racing mind
until, at last, I seem to find
an inner peace, which helps me to
accept the better point of view.

But when I come to ponder war
it’s more than just a minor sore
that I can think and overcome
the negatives, and I succumb.

I think of war both day and night
because it doesn’t seem quite right
that humans have not learned one bit
from all past wars and all that shit.

                                                B. Withers 2024

aTraveler
Jan 25, 2025 4:07 pm

"When the world around me is irredeemable, I am a righteous man."
  — AJ, surgeon on 'The Resident'

Posted by: w30bob

Hi gang,

I was thinking what a great resource this site has been for me since I found it. It would have been really helpful, but maybe a bit scary, to have found it before my ostomy, but that's water under the bridge. But I got thinking about it, and now I'm questioning why doctors and hospitals don't provide this site's contact info to any patient even considering an ostomy today. And how can we change that so potential ostomates can learn about the road ahead for them by getting on here and asking questions before the docs go chop-chop. How exactly do you get all hospitals to provide their patients specific information, like this website?

I just happened to find this site something like 4 years after my ostomy when I Googled "ostomy forum" or something like that. But I never found it during previous searches.....so I found this site pretty much by pure luck. We need to find a way to make this site available to new or soon-to-be ostomates......as that's when we really need to commiserate with fellow ostomates. Anybody have any thoughts on how we do this?

Thanks,

Bob