I had a peristomal hernia/prolapse repaired with mesh mid-January. My stoma is now firm and shaped like a cone, retracted approximately 3/8" below my skin level. I am 6'1" and weigh 260 lbs. I have a modest belly. I have tried every wafer on the market, and none fit. The convex wafers all have a flat bottom. The flat bottom does not follow the contour of my stoma. If I cut the wafer to fit the edge of the stoma, stool accumulates under the edge and makes its way behind the wafer quickly. I can only get a day or two out of the wafer. As expected, my peristomal skin is macerated, itchy, painful, and bleeds. I am in hell! I don't have the patience to crust. Nothing sticks to the conical shape of my stoma because it is covered with mucosa. Has anyone had their stoma updated at the skin level? Is this a major procedure? I think my surgeon overcompensated for my prolapse by stitching down my stoma too far below the skin. I am miserable.

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