Social status rockets after stoma!!

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Queenie
Apr 27, 2025 7:17 pm

Well, I don't know about you lot, but it seems my newish stoma has given me a fabulous new social status!

I have received a personal invitation to attend the opening of the new endoscopy unit at our local hospital! Get me!! But "opening" has so many variations in this context.

I am not sure about the social norms at such an esteemed high-level award, so any advice is welcome!! To be honest, I have declined already; I'm not sure if they're touting for business! And I'm not sure if my belly burps would enhance the event.

SusanT
Apr 27, 2025 9:16 pm
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It can't be too prestigious; it doesn't sound like the king will be in attendance.

Hold out for the king or Prince William at least! Don't sell yourself short.

Immarsh

Hi All, If you have an " old" or recent ostomy, this is the place for you. I think I've been a member for more than 15 years, but I have had my surgery, since I was a kid of 15 ( do the math-that's more than 60 years ago). As a teen, with a new ostomy ( for Ulcerative colitis) my parents dragged me off to my first ostomy association meeting. I wasn't happy, but in the long run, it's the best thing that happened to me. I met others, older, and teens like me, adjusting to the changes. A group of us started a Young adult group, and helped each other, and even visited kids who were new to the world of ostomies. But soon I married, and moved out of state, and although made some connections with other NJ ostomates, I became pretty much isolated. Until I discovered MaO. By then, I was having a myriad of other medical issues, and my aging stoma " wasn't doing well". I received a lot of help and support from members! I was pleased that I was also back to supporting others. I met a gal on line (from Papua New Guinea) who was trying to help ostomates in her country. There is a scarcity of supplies in some other countries, and unlike the US, insurance to pay for supplies isn't available. When my son followed his "love" twenty years ago, and moved to Australia I took advantage of an opportunity to help other ostomates. On one of my first visits to Oz, I brought a suitcase full of Ostomy supplies, handed them off to an Ostomy assoc. On the Gold Coast, who then had a friend take them to PNG. They were grateful for the help, and Janet and I still write.. This is the place to be, if you need help, and it also gives you the opportunity to provide help and support to others. Feel free to write, if you'd like to chat, about things ostomy, or life in general. Best REgards to all.. Marsha

Ben38
Apr 27, 2025 9:36 pm
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You don't know what you're missing out on; you could have had tea and cake there, lol... I don't blame you for not going. I would never go there voluntarily; I call it the torture chamber, lol.

TerryLT
Apr 28, 2025 8:55 pm
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I love your humor! Somehow, I doubt you will regret missing out on this particular social occasion.

Terry

Queenie
Apr 29, 2025 10:59 am

I was being sarcastic, Susan, but you are absolutely right!

 

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SusanT
Apr 29, 2025 11:55 am
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LOL, so was I

almelia
May 04, 2025 2:54 pm
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Avoiding the NHS catering, eh?! I agreed to be the 'guinea pig' for NHS students a few years ago. I can't stand custard creams, and they were the only thing on offer for a 4-hour volunteer stint!

rlevineia
May 05, 2025 3:08 pm
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Dumb NP asked me why I have not had a colonoscopy in 5 years. My reply? "You'll need to go to Mayo Clinic to do it. My colon is in their waste disposal. Obviously, they didn't review my chart. Good news, U/C's have a 28% chance of cancer (Mayo), but not anymore! I dumped that clinic.