Urostomy Care Tips for Full-Time Wheelchair Users

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DJ1
Oct 11, 2012 2:25 pm
Hi folks

I was just wondering if there was anyone in the same position as me, being a full time wheelchair user.

I had a spinal cord injury a number of years ago but had to have a urostomy in 2009. I was given this as a last resort as I had so many issues with my bladder previously.

I am just looking to see how others get on if there is anyone else.

Thanks in advance

DJ1
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Nov 19, 2012 7:55 am

I'm a 32 y/o with a urostomy and cerebral palsy who uses a manual wheelchair as needed. I've had my urostomy since 2005, so I've had it for just over 7.5 years now. I received my urostomy as a result of neurogenic bladder (nerve damage to my bladder, but the damage was due to unknown origin).

I have a background in nursing, so I manage my urostomy myself. I do rather well. I don't have any major issues with my urostomy related to my wheelchair use. Feel free to ask anything.

prettyteacher
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About seven years ago, just about every aspect of my life was ostomy related. From the moment I was told an ostomy might be needed until some months down the road I existed as a person afflicted with a colostomy. I feared someone other than my immediate family might find out I had a bag. Ugh! What could be worse? Suppose it filled real fast when I was out with no place to hide and take care of myself. God forbid should it leak in church! Suppose I roll over on it in bed. I was a lesser creature, destined to a life of emotional anguish and physical routines different from most of the rest of the world. I felt like a freak. Then I found folks like you guys here, read your stuff, really “listened” to what you had to say and I began looking at things differently. We know perception is everything and I began to understand how good things were relative to what they could’ve been. So many folks had it so much worse than I did. That didn’t make my discomfort go away but it exposed how fortunate I was to be dealing with my stuff and not their’s. I felt a little guilt, maybe selfishness but quickly forgave myself by understanding I just wasn’t smart enough to fix my feelings. Then, I wonder what smarts have to do with feelings. My perception was warped so my perspective toward my existence was warped.
I learned over the last few years with the help of lots of folks right here at MAO that I could be better at living just by accepting some facts. It is what it is and so what? It’s not the worst thing to happen to a person.
I think everything is, in some way, related to everything else. I just put the ostomy thing in the back seat and drive forward.
Respectfully,
Mike

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Mar 27, 2013 12:32 pm

Hi Prettyteacher,

I have someone like you as a friend, and since you have a background in Nursing and manage your Urostomy yourself, I will be glad if you can share about it with me. Kindly comment on any of my pictures, and I will be able to communicate with you through there directly. Thanks,
Brian
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Apr 20, 2013 7:08 pm
I, too, am wheelchair-bound. Twenty years ago, I broke my neck and tore my spinal cord (C-7, T1), leaving me an incomplete quadriplegic with neuropathic pain.

Two years ago, due to complications from lymphedema, I became a double 'AKA', or an "above the knee amputee". Then, last year, I had my colostomy done. Now, my ostomy has prolapsed.

I have had so many UTIs from self-cathing that I have hoped that my urologist would suggest something else. I have worn Foleys before, but I would end up with a bag of pink urine. The UTIs were so bad that I would hate to have to take the Foley out!

I have come to terms with everything—I'm not looking for sympathy, just any suggestions. Thanks for any feedback!
jbtalks2
May 15, 2013 3:32 am

Hi! Just posted a lookout for wheelchair users with an ileal conduit (urostomy). Then, I came across this page.
I've had a urostomy since 1998. Also been very prone to parastomal hernias. Had my first hernia surgery in 2002. That one was not done with mesh, and didn't hold. Therefore, I had to have a resite to the left side with a mesh implant in 2003. Got another parastomal hernia in 2009 with more mesh implant. Then, in 2012, I had major abdominal surgery due to a small intestine obstruction from all of the mesh and scar tissue. I was told a better type of mesh was implanted during that surgery.
I also have MS, and can't stand or walk at all. Never expected to have so many parastomal hernias. The surgeon says not being able to walk and having a constant opening in the abdominal wall makes a higher risk for parastomal hernias. Another friend in a wheelchair (SCI) has had a continent urostomy for the same number of years, but she's never had a parastomal hernia. I wonder if I should have had a continent urostomy. Thanks for sharing any info.
jb

PS: Is there a chat room for wheelchair ostomates?

 

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christiesdad
May 16, 2013 1:28 pm

My profound respect for you who are wheelchair-bound.

And to your attitudes about the fact.

An old adage we should all remember:

"I used to complain about my shoes being too tight...

until I met a man with no feet."

God bless you all
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DJ1
May 28, 2013 3:26 pm
Hi jbtalks2

Fortunately, I have not suffered a parastomal hernia yet, well not that I know of, but I am having trouble with my abdomen now. I have a check-up at my spinal injury center soon, so I am going to speak to them about this when there.

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Having a spinal injury, I can go to the spinal injury unit where I can see specialist nurses, some of whom deal with continence issues, so for me, things are pretty much sorted.

I was having real trouble getting bags to seal around my stoma, but I have now managed to find a bag that gives me some confidence.

The biggest problem for me is about people seeing my bag. I hate this feeling, and although people say they can't see it, this doesn't fill me with confidence. People look at wheelchair users at the best of times, so I just feel that they look even more when I have a urostomy.

One thing I hate doing is flying as I can't get to the toilet. I travel alone, so I am always conscious about what I have to drink beforehand, and I worry if my bag is going to come off during the flight.

I hope I don't come over as moaning as I do have a great deal in my favor.

Regards

DJ1