This topic is about a man from the Liverpool area who has recently returned and is looking to connect with other people in the UK who have ostomies. He is particularly interested in finding some "lads" to chat with online and maybe even meet up for a drink. He is gay but wants to make it clear that he is not trying to hit on straight men. He describes himself as easy-going and mentions that one of his biggest challenges is the tendency to hide his ostomy when meeting new people. He hopes that talking with others in similar situations will help build his confidence and lead to new friendships. He encourages others to reach out and say hello.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

1. Many members welcomed him warmly, highlighting that this site is a great place for practical tips and emotional support from people who truly understand life with an ostomy.

2. A member with 19 years of experience as an ostomate offered to share his knowledge and invited further conversation for any specific questions.

3. Both UK and international members, regardless of being gay or straight, offered friendship and the opportunity for real-time chatroom conversations. They emphasized that he is not alone and can discuss his concerns openly without fear of judgment.