This topic is about someone who is preparing for ostomy surgery while their partner is undergoing chemotherapy for stomach cancer. Both are dealing with significant health challenges, and the person is feeling understandably anxious but is trying to stay positive. Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

- Keep a positive attitude and try to smile, as this can make coping easier and help with a quicker recovery.
- Remember that there is always someone available on the forum for a chat or some encouragement when you need it.
- The waiting period before an "elective" surgery can feel particularly tough, but getting through it is part of the journey. You've already taken the first step by reaching out for support.
- Personal resilience, or even a bit of stubbornness, can be a great asset during recovery.
- Someone who is eight years post-surgery shared that maintaining a positive outlook was crucial, and they wished they had connected with this community earlier. They also mentioned that others will be thinking of you on your surgery day.