This topic is about how children perceive ostomy pouches and the honest, sometimes amusing, things they say about them. It highlights a story where a young niece candidly acknowledged her aunt's ostomy pouch, expressing that while it doesn't gross her out, she prefers not to see it for fear it might make her feel sick. The aunt finds this honesty both charming and funny.
Here are some helpful insights and advice shared by others:
1. Children often mirror the attitudes of adults. If you approach the topic of a stoma with ease and without fear, kids are likely to be curious rather than disgusted.
- One person shared that her 6-year-old niece was initially a bit grossed out but then became curious and comfortable after seeing and gently touching the pouch.
- Another person mentioned that her adopted son, who was introduced to the stoma at a young age, was never bothered by it.
2. A nurse suggested a way to help someone understand that a stoma is just living tissue: have them touch their own tongue first, then the stoma, as both have a similar feel.
3. After surgery, stomas can appear large and unattractive due to swelling and stitches, but they usually shrink and look more natural over time. This change can make it easier to share their appearance if you choose to do so later.
4. It's important to wait until you feel comfortable before showing your stoma to others. Many partners are already familiar with the concept through surgical explanations.
5. On a lighter note, some people find humor in the fact that having a pouch means no more worrying about leaving "floaters" in the toilet, which can be seen as an unexpected benefit.
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