Topic Explanation
The forum discussion is initiated by Kevin, a 48-year-old single father who is navigating the dating scene while having a stoma. He expresses difficulty in finding a partner due to his medical condition and seeks advice from others who might have similar experiences.

Advice and Insights
1. Profile and Introduction:
- Consider including your introduction in your dating profile to help potential partners understand you better.
- Highlight your character and the fact that you are a father, which can be appealing to some.

2. Perspective on the Stoma:
- Do not let the stoma define you or stop you from dating.
- Understand that everyone has their own challenges, and a stoma might not be a significant issue for the right person.

3. Dating Strategy:
- Use member search features to find potential partners in your area and reach out to them.
- Keep trying and meeting new people; the right person will not see the stoma as a barrier.

4. Attitude and Confidence:
- Maintain self-assurance and confidence, as it is attractive to potential partners.
- Use humor to lighten the situation and make interactions more enjoyable.

5. Disclosure of the Stoma:
- Decide when to inform your date about your stoma; it should not be a problem unless you make it one.
- Some suggest being open about it from the beginning, as it can lead to supportive and understanding relationships.

6. Experience Sharing:
- Some have found partners who are supportive and do not focus on the stoma, emphasizing the importance of openness and finding the right person.
- Celebrate and appreciate the moments with a partner who accepts you as you are.