Topic Explanation:
The forum topic is about seeking advice and information regarding the surgery to remove the anus and have a colostomy done at the same time. The original poster's wife needs to undergo this surgery due to an anal stricture and diversion colitis on her stoma. The poster is looking for insights on post-op recovery, what to expect, and what to look for after the surgery.

Advice and Insights:
- Recovery time varies for individuals; some experience a relatively easy recovery, while others may face minor complications such as infections or excessive scar tissue.
- After the surgery, it may take about six weeks for the back end to heal and for the soreness to subside. Vaginal discomfort during intercourse and weird sensations in the rear where the anus used to be may occur, but these usually resolve over time.
- Salt baths can help in healing the rear end quicker after the surgery.
- Using cotton pads in underwear and taking baths with Savlon in the water can provide comfort and disinfection during the healing process.
- Some individuals may experience phantom pains or continued infection, which can prolong the healing time.
- It's advisable to avoid sitting upright for an extended period after the surgery and to use a thick pillow for support when sitting becomes possible.
- Walking and other exercises can aid in the recovery process.
- Pain medicine may be necessary during the healing process, and it's important to avoid sitting for several weeks after the surgery.
- The healing process can take several months, and it's essential to be patient and seek medical advice if any complications arise.
- It's important to maintain good communication with the medical team and seek advice from specialists if any discomfort or complications persist after the surgery.