Topic Explanation
The forum topic is about a person struggling with frequent leaks from their colostomy bag and seeking advice on how to wash the stoma without removing the adhesive barrier. The individual expresses frustration and fear about living with the colostomy and seeks advice from the forum members.

Advice and Insights
* Use mild soap and water to wash around the stoma, but avoid washing the stoma directly.
* Experiment with different ostomy products to find what works reliably for your skin type.
* Avoid high fiber foods, especially when new to having a colostomy.
* Contact ostomy product makers for free samples to find the most suitable products.
* Do not wash the stoma directly, but running clean water over it during a shower is acceptable.
* Use skin prep, barrier wipes, and protective washers to prepare the area before applying a new bag.
* Consider using a convex moldable wafer for better wear time and less frequent changes.
* Seek advice from an ostomy nurse or doctor before attempting irrigation.
* Be cautious with water temperature and avoid rubbing the stoma directly.
* Use adhesive remover before showering and ensure the area is completely dry before applying a new wafer.
* Consider using elastic barrier strips to reinforce the flange and prevent leaks.
* Use Eakins Seals or Coloplast barrier strips to create a secure fit and prevent leaks.
* Consider using a squeeze bottle with warm water and a little baby oil to clean the stoma and the bag, which can help save changes in between.
* Seek support from an ostomy nurse or local support groups for additional guidance and assistance.
* Be patient and give yourself time to adjust to the changes, and consider seeking professional help for depression and emotional support.

These insights and advice are aimed at helping the individual manage their colostomy, prevent leaks, and find a routine that works best for their specific situation.