Hello Kakoot.
Thank you for your post as it mirrors my own experience.
With being a vegetarian, it would be difficult (for me) to do without salads, so I wouldn't even contemplate it. I eat almost anything I want to and yes, I have the same trouble with BM's.
Dulcoease works best for me but about 6 months ago I decided to stop using it. Since then, I have had some irregularity with BM's but nothing I cannot cope with.
Upon reflection, I have always had these problems (long before I had the stoma) so, I feel it's just a consequence of my metabolism. It is also probably part of the reason I needed to have a stoma in the first place.
I irrigate, which does mitigate some of the difficulties, but what now happens is that the output from irrigating is less predictable than it was before I stopped using Dulcoease. This I can cope with, so for now my routine will remain the same and I will simply try to adjust to what people on here call 'the new normal'.
That is: whatever life throws at us!
I do hope that others will have more practical advice than me and that you can find solutions to your problems.
Best wishes
Bill