Hi friends! So today marks 19 days post-surgery and so far all is going well. This week I had blood in my stool on and off, so since my anxiety always runs high, I panicked and called my surgeon. I had bloody stool on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, not every time I had a BM but at least twice on every one of those days. EDIT: I am now only having 3-4 BMs a day and only in the mornings. Most BMs are formed. I have full control of my bowels but it is still somewhat painful if I hold it, so I don't do that. I can also pass gas without fear of having an accident. At first, I thought it may have been the pasta and marinara I ate; in my heart, I knew it wasn't, but I was trying not to freak out. The doc said that was normal and not to worry because I was healing well and was healthy. She did say that I could have bloody BMs throughout the next couple of weeks and that it could also be bleeding from hemorrhoids (which I have from giving birth). She did tell me a few things to watch for, like seeping blood from my bum and big blood clots (which I am not experiencing), and to go to the ER if that happens. So, okay, I feel better now, especially since the bleeding is not constant. I see my primary care doc on Tuesday for the swelling I'm having in my pubic area. My surgeon said the swelling is not consistent with a reversal; however, I did not have this type of swelling until I got my stoma. Hopefully, he can refer me to someone who could figure it out. It isn't painful nor discolored; it's just a big bulge. Hope everyone has a super fantastic weekend and Happy Easter if you celebrate that!! Be well, friends!
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