Hello! My daughter ended up with an ileostomy after a car accident. They plan on reversal in a few months, at her 6-month post-surgery mark. Until then, she has a skin-level stoma. We have had several wound nurses, and no one has had any suggestions that worked to stop the leak. Her stoma is not only skin-level but also has creases on both sides, one more than the other. It's right at her bending line. We have tried 15+ different bags over the last few months, including all the convex and the deep convex. It doesn't pop out at all. We use rings and have even filled the creases with either paste, strips, or pieces of a ring. She has a hernia belt now but used the regular ones before. The leak starts right under our stoma and gets in between the skin and ring, or just the barrier before we used rings. We heat it with a hairdryer and make sure it's clean and dry. She uses Marathon barrier because after a couple of months, the crushing was making her skin worse. Her stoma is oval as well. We have been very diligent with skin care, so luckily it's not too bad. Some redness and a little irritation that heals pretty quickly. She's not strong enough to have surgery sooner or a revision since she is still healing from the accident. I feel like I have read all the posts, videos, everything. No one has had a solution. We only use Dial orange soap to clean during showers. I feel like I'm overly educated on this and still can't figure it out. We are over it! Someone please help!!
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