Had a surgical review today. They talked about surgery as they are not happy with how small my stoma is and couldn't even get his finger in to feel for anything. They are talking about feeding tubes to bypass things to get me stronger for surgery. I'm not looking forward to it all, but needs must before I get any more malnourished. Having this site for support really helps. Thanks.
kerrycookie95
Jun 17, 2025 8:10 pm
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Caz67
Well it's just coming upto a year since I had my emergency stoma. Since joining MAOM I have learnt all different kinds of ideas to help with the stoma. Not only that I have made a lot of good friends who I can talk to. The beauty of this site is it's not just giving tips and ideas we talk about anything and everything. So thank you for giving us a great site. XX
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Axl
Jun 18, 2025 5:40 am
Another surgery isn't ideal, of course, but it's another step on your way in the right direction. Good news.
kerrycookie95
Jun 18, 2025 9:48 am
No, they didn't really look until yesterday and tried to examine it and couldn't. I have said for a while it's very small, but we never seem to be heard.
SusanT
Jun 18, 2025 11:58 am
I'm so glad they finally see the problem. It's frustrating when we know there's a problem and doctors just don't get it.
I hope everything works out for you. Thanks for keeping us updated.
infinitycastle52777
Jun 18, 2025 1:08 pm
I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. Hang in there, and hopefully, things will improve soon.
Staten island lady
Jun 18, 2025 2:04 pm
Hi Kerry, I went through a similar situation years ago. I couldn't have my surgery because I was also malnourished. I weighed about 98 lbs. They put a port in my chest for meds and nutrition for about a month, but thankfully it helped. It had to be done, or they were not going to do my surgery, which in return saved my life. It will be fine; do what the doctors say. I know it's hard, but it's a must. I'll pray that everything works out and you will be fine. Stay strong. Best regards, S.I.L. Keep us posted.
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