Hi friends, I'm new here and would love to hear about others' experiences of those who have had (or considered) colostomy reversal surgery. I was given an unexpected gift of a stoma last November, following bowel surgery and having a Hartmann's. I am mercifully cancer-free and am grateful. I have developed a parastomal hernia that is uncomfortable and sometimes painful.
I have been advised that a reversal operation is feasible, that my muscle and pelvic floor control appears good, and that, as relatively young (early 60s), my surgeon recommends I should go for it. However, I only have about 15% of my rectum remaining (and do have most of my colon intact).
But I am afraid of becoming fecally incontinent with such a reduced rectum. I am told that the body adjusts and the end of the colon would learn to develop as a 'holding area.' But this feels like a risk, and I like to be active and away from the house or town as much as possible. It would be hell to be tied to being near a toilet or washroom all the time. Has anyone else had such a dilemma? I would really appreciate as many responses as possible. I am not seeking medical advice, just reaching out to find others' experiences. Thank you very much in advance and hope.
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