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May 02, 2021

Dating with an ostomy - Seeking advice and experiences

Topic Explanation:
The forum topic is about seeking advice and experiences related to dating with an ostomy. The original poster shares their experiences with dating women and men, expressing anxiety about disclosing their ostomy and seeking advice on how to handle dating and casual connections with an ostomy.

Advice and Insights:
1. Consider using products like underwear and lingerie for ostomates, cap systems, or pouches that can be attached higher to make the ostomy seem smaller to feel more comfortable during intimacy.
2. The right person won't 'see' the ostomy or care that you have one; they will see you for who you are and understand the strength it represents.
3. Be cautious about sharing personal details or giving access to your story/stoma unless the person is genuinely interested and makes an effort to prioritize you in their life.
4. Rejection is a part of dating, so it's important to accept it and understand that each rejection brings you closer to finding the right person.
5. Keep a sense of humor and stay positive while navigating the ups and downs of dating with an ostomy.
6. Focus on taking care of yourself and continue living life to the fullest, being open to new experiences and relationships.
7. Trust your instincts and be true to yourself, understanding that not everyone will accept or understand your situation, but it's important to stay confident and resilient.
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