Reply to warrior
My comment is in response to Warrior's
Dec 29, 2023 8:42 pm
Reply to Beachboy
The discussion took the route of discussing deafness from birth and the impact this has upon people's behavior and understanding:
Thank you both Beach Boy and Warrior for this as I learned from you both:
Great insight... Thanks for this - most enlightening.
I have gradually lost my hearing since the age of 50-something - maybe a tad before that.
Fact is that so much of what we perceive is governed by visual cues and feeling...
When I first had hearing aids I used to find them irritating/inconvenient...
Now I have sophisticated digital slim ones - and yes, they're actually great...
But still, there are days where I like to really 'work' my hearing - because rather like eyesight, when sight deteriorates with city pollution, stress, lack of sleep, IT work [screen strain - not IT person - lol] and fine detailing on the drawing board, painting easel, it used to be the constant change... contact lenses for close up - then specs for driving and large presentations/board room meetings and so on - all packed into a working 16-hour day... Then, when you downshift to a clean air environment and a better quality of life the eyes 'recover' and eyesight improves.
Now with hearing loss/decline I do realize that there is also the brain adjustment thing when we use our aids... but fact is I still like to know I can live - and live well without the aid - either from choice, or out of necessity... BUT I do warrant that it is unfair to expect - in my case - for an upped volume or continual voice projection by others, just because I prefer not to 'normalize' on occasions. SO my own two penneth on my own limited understandings are aired - as prior to reading your post - I probably knew little more concerning Audiology - let alone the Psychology involved as you have shared here!
Thanks for your own explanations - In a short focused read, you have imparted what audiologists do not have the insight to even expose!
On a separate point entirely,
My school used to be geographically next to a special school for the deaf [and in those sad old days some folk thought 'dumb'... the school was known as "the deaf and dumb school"!]... My-Oh-My
We [the school I went to for hearing kids, situated next door in the same road] used to play the school for a joint sports day... hockey rounders in the Autumn / and tennis / netball in Spring / summer.
I was a very sporty person.
This got me to know fairly well, within the school context, a few of the girls, who were deaf from birth.
Many years later in life I found myself in business, fronting a presentation company - and used to go to meetings and presentations - to pitch and bring in work, service the briefs and then present finished products/tools.
One of the most moving experiences I had was when I first went into a charity board room meeting where everyone - apart from myself used their full senses to supplement their non-hearing sense.
In fact, the very particular atmosphere of 'a quiet in-depth knowing' was palpable - those people were the most perceptive and deeply enquiring audience I had ever had the privilege to present to, and later to represent!
I, have as I have grown a little, come to know that, whilst I would love for all to experience fine symphonies [for not everyone hears stuff in their heads quite like Beethoven did for example]... and the magic of bird song when the dawn chorus lifts my spirit on a dull winter's day, I know, in my own heart, that if I ever have to trade one of my senses - my hearing would be missed, ohhhhhhhh yeah... v.v.v. much, but touch, feeling, sight and our other 6th+ senses I would feel severely numbed if they were absent indefinitely!
Sooooooooo just saying
Thanks Warrior. Thanks Beach Boy.
Your words have resulted in a read I never expected to have tonight!
R E S P E C T
Aged, 'Listening' Member across the pond - who tries to keep her ears young!
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Jayne