Reply to CrappyColon
Hi Jodie... Happy New Year! Kiddo... Good reply. A little late to the party though.
I think I can clarify with almost 100% certainty that the English vocab is taking a hit. Webster's can't keep up... I just want to touch on this first lightly...
There is certain lingo, slang, definitions of words that can be taken the wrong way... a culture out there in the digital world and even on the street. Would you all agree? Terms have double meanings, sayings are way out there too... like shut the front door? I don't know who thought of this, my door is locked all the time. Yet... other people know it's a nicer way to say STFU. I am just putting this out to prove my point of a word culture being out of context, and some of us old farts do not "get this" shit.
Peacocking? Your word? I gotta look that up to comment. But you are right in the animal world, the male will draw attention... and then what after mating? Split.
When someone is kidding, I see (JK) for just kidding. Sarcasm has never been my forte in writing. I use the emojis for that... some get it, some don't.
One thing you must learn is humor. You gotta have a sense of it to be on a site. Also, have some fun with it when replying. You saw Jodie's reply... I wouldn't be surprised if she knocks on my front door saying
"Tonnnnnnnny... open this effing door... you got some explaining to do."
I am not telling you to STFU... but if I did, I would (JK) you, hon...
Re: fish? You are too cute. You are married to a wonderful man, and I think you don't frequent dating sites, but if you did, you would be surprised to know there's a site dedicated to married people... to hook up... hook? fish? hm... popular term nowadays. Even DATE has a double meaning. Two sites come to mind... Bumble Bee... and Plenty of Fish... Those who read my posts, I hope can read between the lines where I found this "fish." Names were not used to protect the innocent.
Fishing, hunting, baseball, all have significant true reference for us guys. Women also are nowadays more interested in games than they used to be. I am floored seeing women profiles saying they fish, hunt, and are into sports. I am also told, Home Depot and Lowe's are hot spots to meet a guy.
((Editor's note: I have to submit this reply several times to make sure it does in fact get posted... so after in this process, editing, I see my gal-pal Jodie already replied cause she is a quick-wit chick. I will answer that separately but for viewers, I have to submit and come back, since there seems to be a glitch using a laptop over a cell. It is showing I have edited this 5 times in a row, so the reason is obvious now.))
Agreed, we have to put ourselves out "there" on here especially to drive home a point. We are real. We suffer fates, we can be an ass... but we can discuss it... deeply, empathically, in terms where we do get whatever it is you are going through. But, the "fish" in my case was expecting to meet a 62 y.o. man who looked like he was 55... and yes, shallow as this seems, she was over the moon about how a man can be so young looking. My photo was taken in 2019... some years ago, and she was completely duped meeting me IRL. (in real life)
I flaunted it. I got burnt too. Just saying, keep your photo recent. I was not hiding my age, didn't even consider it cause no one really updates their photo and it is a given on sites... you just have to call them on it. "Hey, is this a recent photo or what?"
I have to disagree about first dates, letting them know about your dirty secret. If you win them with your charms, wit, intel, the secret can be discussed at the time needed. People have mixed feelings about the timing of when to "tell all at onset" or not. Some even went on to say the participant "didn't even know" they had a bag. Bull shitz... I need a picture as evidence to prove this cause I say NFW. (no-effing-way). Obviously, this ostomate was a magician or slipped a mickey into the drinks. Boink!
Being a warrior - albeit survivor, nothing sways me... nope... and as proof, I will show if this guy (me) can do it, get away with hiding it, will testify under oath, if it works. However, if I fail, then I eat crow. Good thing for the moment, I also have ageusia - lack of taste buds. Thank you, Ken Butt surgery.
((Theme from Mission Impossible, circa 1970s plays.) Oh oh, I got a better one... "The Osty Who Shagged Me".