Tim, Tim, Tim,
You are clearly a presumptuous, arrogant, ignorant, abusive person. You start with, "Let me guess. Wife is 20+ yrs younger than you?" - an assumption that you base the rest of your tirade on. Then you supply me with your in-depth knowledge of marriage sustainability statistics, followed by a reference to my unknown, non-existent colostomy bag. You then decide that unless I am missing both my hands, there is no injury that I could have sustained during my Vietnam service (that I am now on a 90% disability pension) that should prevent me from changing my flange.
You end with, "I don't think the colostomy is your problem, Bob. I think the mistake you made, trying to recapture your lost youth and marrying a woman much too young for you and making a baby at 60 yrs old, is your problem. Better have the number of a good lawyer on hand."
If you would pull your head out of your colostomy bag, you may be able to see the world through a much better perspective and not the S**T outlook you have today.
I trust that you refrain from giving this sort of support and advice to others here. This site could do well without people like you and your arrogant opinions denigrating others as if you had a God-given right and knew every detail of their lives so you could inform them where they went wrong.
I, for one, would be most happy if I never read another of your presumptuous and arrogant posts.
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Hi Bob Bob Bob;
Hope all is well, as you were saying that it isn't as bad as first thought. Glad to hear that. If in doubt, just go look at yourself in the mirror. You're a good father and a husband and a big part of their lives. I think that a relationship is something that you are always working on, and when this happens it only strengthens the relationship. Tim summed it up best when he stopped talking/typing!
I see my old friends have already responded to your post. I echo their sentiments, Bob, old friend! What a lot of souls who post in here do not realize is that they have to "walk a mile in your moccasins" before they can judge. The only thing in this forum that is a long mile and not like any other mile on earth. Hang in there, old friend. You have a lot of friends................