Where do I begin. I want to keep it short and sweet and know that it took some time to come to terms with it and this is what I have grown to know as the truth.
As I see myself and feel about my Ostomy, comes through in every action word and deed that I do and my mate, partner, lover( as all animal do) pick up on that very scent and react accordingly.
For me the Ostomy has made me better than i could have ever been without it, and i consider it truly my lotto ticket to life, its incites, its nuances to the very nature of mankind and his or her imperfections........
We are all so imperfect , its just how we project or let those imperfections guide us that makes the difference. Did you ever wonder how the guy who wasnt so good looking in HS but got the girls, did it?...........It was his confidence of who he was and not the looks that did it.....
We see it and just dont believe it, but it is true, Confidence is sexy and can hide just about anything , even an Ostomy hanging off ones belly, so much so that your partner will not even see it..
I hope I am understood and my words are received the way I have intended.
Love to you all Michael