What's your stoma's name? Share your creative names!

I agree with you....100..is silly to make it something different as ;is us......crippled people do not name ;their misfortune...........is truly silly to do so........................but some here do that.........I look at mine and think.....I am happy to be alive.....but I am not naming it...........is ridiculous to do so

I still think my F'n stoma is quite content without a name. It knows who it is, knows it's the boss, gives me a batch of crap whenever it wants, and knows I will treat it better than any run-of-the-mill asshole. But WAB, I don't consider it a misfortune. I consider myself unfortunate to have needed it but so fortunate to have gotten it. Maybe I'll follow NDY's suggestion and go all the way with "Saint Effin".

Mike

I have taken to calling mine 'my STOMA', then everybody knows what I'm talking about and if for some reason they haven't come across the term before, I can explain.

I do like the names that other people have come up with and I hope that they will keep inventing new ones and sharing them with us to make us smile.

Best wishes

Bill 

Not too different from me, Bill.  You're just more polite and respectful.

Mike

I guess I don't expect much. I wake up every morning and there's the life I have and it's pretty cool. These days it's extra cool that I woke up! And I have life! And, better yet, I can still hop out of bed and fight for shower space with my family!

The day that I woke up in the hospital with a surprise stoma was definitely 'out of routine.' I was foggy, but I think that within a few minutes I had made a decision... I could be really upset about this new development, or I could embrace it wholeheartedly as a new part of my self. I chose the latter. My stoma was new, different, delicate, and a new entity to force my attention.

As I woke up in the hospital bed and looked down at this fleshy red appendage with those feelings and subconscious decisions, my maternal instincts kicked in. I brought myself out of the shock by naming my stoma as I would a newborn child, which obviously signified and eased an acceptance, and furthered my mind's ability to do so. Poo duty again! Been there, done that, let's just go ahead and resign ourselves to more poo duty.

WAB, I think "ridiculous" is a strong and lowering term. Our misfortunes have many names, but I don't think stomas are crippling, it's just a different kind of way that we work with our bodies. I have never heard of anyone naming their arthritis lumps, or hair loss genes, but most people name their stomas. You might not have had an urge to name yours, but LOADS of the rest of us DO name ours. And we will NOT be ridiculed for it, we will work with our instincts to ease the shock of transitioning into a whole new regimen of daily life. With a lot more humor and pleasure because our stomas have fun 'personalities'.

C'mon, WAB, you've gotta have ONE funny story about your stoma, yeah?

Sorry... that I used ridiculous... but well, it is not me to name any of my body parts... well, maybe my Zi ZI ;( you figure it out)... when I had the operation, I told myself this will not hold me back and it has not. I have had quite an active life and wish to continue to do so... ocean sailing... love exploring the unknown... lived in many countries... learned to drive a huge coach and explored the USA... I am still looking for excitement... but naming my stoma, I will not do... alas... when I look at it, I see a miracle... saved my life... has been 17 years and well, I look at it as a life saver... but alas, no funny stories... when I left the hospital, I did a lot of research and well, started irrigating at the beginning... my stoma has never caused me any problems at all... I am sure I am not the only one... I know some here have all kinds of problems but alas, not me... if you have a name for mine that I might like... bring it on... lol...

Thank you WAB for your reply and I'm sure we all accept your apology about the term 'ridiculous'. Thank you also for the 'challenge' you lay down for trying to find a suitable name for your stoma and I hope that people on here will come back with some suggestions.

You give the impression that you live your life 'functionally', getting the most out of it that you can. Thus, I was trying to think of a descriptive, functional  term for your stoma that sums up the process of irrigation.

How about 'SUMP-PUMP'. 

Best wishes

Bill

Very creative, Bill. Brilliant. Take care. LH

I have found that naming my stoma has given me comfort. Her name (yes, she) is Rosie for the main fact it looks like a rosebud. Funny enough, I found out months later that my surgeon's daughter is also named Rosie. But with my stoma, I talk to her, about her, give her birthday parties on the year mark of surgery. Anything to help with the coping, and these all seem to. My boyfriend even talks to her when she is particularly gurgling. I had to get the surgery because of cancer. My stoma is not the most glorious thing, but it did save my life. She is now my lifelong friend that I will treat with respect.

Love you Sdp85 for blessing Rosie so deeply.

My stoma "Holly" was cancer-driven also. I love her, too. Nice that your boyfriend accepts Rosie, I don't think my hubby has actually used the word "Holly."

My colostomy was a huge surprise! My colon had ruptured and every bit and organ in my body cavity had gone septic. My insides had to be handled and saline-rinsed 100 times to rinse out all the epidemic. When I was allowed to wake up a month later, the first thing I noticed was the stink when my bag was being changed. The second thing was a huge, gaping hole where my belly button used to be. There was a machine attached to a hose coming out of the hole pumping blood and clear serum out of the hole. Naturally, I named the stoma Stinky and the wound Leaky.

Wow. I find it hard to process that mentally. How do you get people to "get" what you've been through? My gut instinct (oh sorry, turn-of-phrase... not sure that all of us still have guts...) is to just not answer. Too heavy for me. Proceed to a topic that I can relate to. Not yours, Eeek! But that would defeat the whole purpose of this site, yeah?

Welcome Stinky! We hope your courage in this process will help Leaky!

And welcome, DonBrown, they cut out my insides too. But isn't it amazing how much of your guts you don't actually need to survive?

My friend Andrew had stomach cancer and they had to remove HIS ENTIRE STOMACH. But after that we could go to restaurants and he could eat like anyone. I think they told him he should chew more but we really saw no signs of that. Munchy yum num mmmm. My lesson was that you don't actually need a stomach.

Were you really asleep for a whole month?

My colon burst on September 22, 2016 but I didn't realize it. I had a 20-year history of IBD, UC, and diverticulitis. The pain kept getting worse until September 24, 2016. At that point, it was 10 out of 10 so I went to the emergency room. The doctor on duty diagnosed a perforated bowel and decided to treat it with antibiotics. However, my pain level was so high I would not be able to heal, so beginning on September 24, they dosed me so heavily on painkillers that I was effectively asleep. They finally called in a surgeon on October 3, as I was about to die. He said he didn't think he could save me, but he would try. He did the emergency colostomy, and they continued the painkillers until November 3, when they had to let me wake up so I could be transferred to a Rehabilitation Center. That's another horror story for some other time. I came home just before Thanksgiving Day. My wife had been making decisions for me and is still my primary caregiver. I thank God for my wife because I simply would not have made it without her.

Wow. Your wife must be an amazing woman!

Deuce Pooper is what I like to call mine.

I call mine Stumpy the Stoma. He (I wonder why I think it is a he?) looks like a little stump of something.

I call my stoma Oscar after The Odd Couple. Guess which role is mine? It makes it easy to talk about when other people are around.

No need to apologize for your sense of humor, Bill. I thought your post was quite funny - chuckle funny.

Your research turned into an interesting, enjoyable post.

Hello  suzeekew.

Thanks for your post and your feedback on the humour. It always feels good to know that someone, somewhere shares a similar sense of humour, even if it is a bit obscure in presentation.

Best wishes

Bill

Why?

Hello Paull0288.

Does your 'why?' mean - what reasons are there? If so, can you be a little more precise as to what subject you are asking the question about so that we can focus more accurately on trying to find some answers.

Thanks.

Best wishes

Bill

I had never named my urostomy anything, but after I had gotten my ileostomy, the stoma nurse suggested that I should name them both. So, after much thinking, I came up with Rosie for my uro and Winnie after Winnie the Pooh for my ileostomy.

Gucci is her name.

Hi,

I call my stoma Oscar. The reason is that my husband is a Felix and I am an Oscar as well, of course, my ostomy can be messy too, sometimes.

Partly due to my ostomy only being temporary, I haven't given my stoma a nickname. However, when I was taking a bath last night, I was thinking how it's like a spigot or a tap on the outside of my body. Then I thought, so it's a "crap tap"! Laughed myself silly for a few minutes. So, unofficially, that's its nickname. :-)

Hello Scout Finch. Thanks for the smile you  gave me this morning.

I do like the 'crap-tap' label as it is so functionally descriptive and can be used as a generic term for all feacal stomas.

Min actually has 4 names. Maxine, Pelosi, Wilson, Lee!

I've named mine T.C. for Tummy Cork.

I named mine Ill because it makes me ill as crap all the time. It leaks at the worst possible time in the world it could. I hate it but again, as said in the previous post, it did save my life along with chemo and other drugs.

I still haven't named it but was thinking "Skip".  Now I can skip the butt cleaning part.

Mike